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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2016 18:25:53 GMT -5
Also wouldn't reporting this to DR put that same target on your back? Like you reported a friend to DR instead of talking to them like an adult. I think that reveals more about their relationship to Frank if anything. I saw people tweet about it happening on the feeds. I don't have the feeds. And, the way I see it, this is a job. What happens if you get sexually harassed at work? You don't cause a scene and confront the person. You go to HR. reporting it to production is the same thing. Had she confronted him, it would still put a target on her back. She was safer this way. That's not a good comparison at all lolz You don't need to cause a scene. She could have sat him down like Paulie did. Telling your friend something is inappropriate isn't going to put a target on your back. Frank is still cool with Paulie even though Paulie confronted him about this. Reporting someone who thinks you are their friend will definitely put a target on your back though. |
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 18:27:37 GMT -5
To compare bb as a job is just dumb lol. But I don't agree with Frank's actions and he should stop but if he did it to day before without her being mad then it's partially her fault as well. She could go to him like an adult and confront him Quote me next time. And I don't think is has to do with maturity. As a women it can be intimidating to approach a man about that sort of thing regardless of where you are or who the man is Being okay with it one time then the next you're not just gives mixed signals. Confronting him would mark him know to stop for sure |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2016 18:31:07 GMT -5
Frank mentioned this morning that he thought they were closer than that. He doesn't trust Day at all and wants her out now.
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Post by Kaitlyn on Jul 8, 2016 18:48:16 GMT -5
I saw people tweet about it happening on the feeds. I don't have the feeds. And, the way I see it, this is a job. What happens if you get sexually harassed at work? You don't cause a scene and confront the person. You go to HR. reporting it to production is the same thing. Had she confronted him, it would still put a target on her back. She was safer this way. That's not a good comparison at all lolz You don't need to cause a scene. She could have sat him down like Paulie did. Telling your friend something is inappropriate isn't going to put a target on your back. Frank is still cool with Paulie even though Paulie confronted him about this. Reporting someone who thinks you are their friend will definitely put a target on your back though. It's a great comparison. You guys don't understand because you're men. It's different as a women. It's gross. And frank has a gf so he shouldn't be doing that at all tbh regardless of if Day wants it or not |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2016 19:04:48 GMT -5
That's not a good comparison at all lolz You don't need to cause a scene. She could have sat him down like Paulie did. Telling your friend something is inappropriate isn't going to put a target on your back. Frank is still cool with Paulie even though Paulie confronted him about this. Reporting someone who thinks you are their friend will definitely put a target on your back though. It's gross. And frank has a gf so he shouldn't be doing that at all tbh regardless of if Day wants it or not I don't disagree with you about this... I just think Day could have handled the situation differently. |
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 19:25:08 GMT -5
To compare the BB house like a work environment is where i disagree with the comparison.
And women aren't the only ones who can be sexually harassed even though its more common for women to be. I just think if someone slaps your a** and you're okay with it or at least act like you're okay with it the first several times then obviously the person doing it thinks its okay still. Not saying it isn't still sexual harassment but if Day wouldve confronted him from the start I honestly don't think it wouldve continued
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 19:34:49 GMT -5
Frank won RK. chances he puts up Day? lol
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Post by Kaitlyn on Jul 8, 2016 20:38:52 GMT -5
Frank won RK. chances he puts up Day? lol I'm thinking Bronte maybe bc he pitched her to Bridgette |
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 20:43:38 GMT -5
probably just to save face. Hopefully Tiffany or Bronte go
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Post by Nate on Jul 8, 2016 21:14:10 GMT -5
When people defend Frank lmaoz
He's a bad player and a douche, whether he knows it or not.
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 21:30:21 GMT -5
No one is defending him. But if a guy slaps your a** and you are all happy and okay with it he's obviously going to keep doing it until you say something to him. Don't be okay with it then all of a sudden have a problem with it just because he's on your radar now.
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 21:32:33 GMT -5
when is the Battle Back taking place? I thought they were gonna do it every week
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Post by Nate on Jul 8, 2016 21:43:04 GMT -5
No one is defending him. But if a guy slaps your a** and you are all happy and okay with it he's obviously going to keep doing it until you say something to him. Don't be okay with it then all of a sudden have a problem with it just because he's on your radar now. Its already been explained why this happened when it did by Day and the support of every other houseguest so idk why you're acting like she's wrong in finally saying something. She is in a game where if you freak out, even if just, you put a target on your back. She kept quiet and went along with it for as long as she could (while still complaining about it along with most of the other women) but finally said something. This is literally how 90% of situations of harassment work. Most women do not right off the bat tell the man to f*ck off and Day's situation is much more tough than out in the real world. If you don't get it, then idk what to say. |
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 21:57:26 GMT -5
I just see it as an excuse. If you speak out 1) all of the other women will have her back so yea its a game that could affect you but if everyone's on your side with the situation then 1 person against you isn't going to matter especially if the rest of the house is okay with it. 2) most men would have a problem with it as well, so your reasoning for her not saying anything is just an excuse
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 22:00:20 GMT -5
I get what you're saying but not saying anything makes things worse 100% of the time. Frank is no way in this situation right, but all Day had to do was sit him down and tell him not to do it anymore. There's no target when everyone else in the house has a problem with it.
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Post by Nate on Jul 8, 2016 22:00:57 GMT -5
I just see it as an excuse. If you speak out 1) all of the other women will have her back so yea its a game that could affect you but if everyone's on your side with the situation then 1 person against you isn't going to matter especially if the rest of the house is okay with it. 2) most men would have a problem with it as well, so your reasoning for her not saying anything is just an excuse They're in an alliance together...one that Frank could possibly have power in (Day doesn't know for sure). The reasoning 100% makes sense lol |
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 22:02:22 GMT -5
I just see it as an excuse. If you speak out 1) all of the other women will have her back so yea its a game that could affect you but if everyone's on your side with the situation then 1 person against you isn't going to matter especially if the rest of the house is okay with it. 2) most men would have a problem with it as well, so your reasoning for her not saying anything is just an excuse They're in an alliance together...one that Frank could possibly have power in (Day doesn't know for sure). The reasoning 100% makes sense lol lol i've seen everyone in said alliance say they want Frank out. Is she now buddy buddy with him since he won Road Kill cuz then she's being a hypocrite? |
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Post by Nate on Jul 8, 2016 22:06:15 GMT -5
They're in an alliance together...one that Frank could possibly have power in (Day doesn't know for sure). The reasoning 100% makes sense lol lol i've seen everyone in said alliance say they want Frank out. Is she now buddy buddy with him since he won Road Kill cuz then she's being a hypocrite? Dude nobody who wants to win thinks telling someone off or not talking to someone because they don't like them is a good strategy. If she's buddy buddy with him all of a sudden then she's playing the game. |
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Post by Jgrubl on Jul 8, 2016 22:08:31 GMT -5
it's sexual harassment so the game shouldn't matter to her if she's that serious about it. Thats my point. Can't be pissed one second then all buddy buddy with him cuz he wins something. Then get pissed off about him again when he's on her radar. Its being a hypocrite.
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Post by Nate on Jul 8, 2016 22:09:48 GMT -5
Nah it's playing the game.
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